Even if ALL the steps are followed, the visit may not even happen due to the loved one being moved to a different facility and the visitor not knowing or a random dress code violation (e.g. underwire in a bra). Additionally, if you touch during the visit your visit will be terminated and your loved one will get a disciplinary ticket. If this happens, the visitor has to wait until the van/bus comes back and this can be hours. As the visitor can't wait on prison grounds, they have to find a place to stay and most prisons are in isolated areas. 

It shouldn’t be this hard.

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Steps to Visiting a Loved One in a New York State Prison

  • Review visit calendar

  • Request time off work

  • Arrange care of loved ones or pets

  • Ensure appropriate clothes - bras, zippers, etc. can set off metal detectors & terminate the visit

  • Bring an acceptable form of ID

  • Have a notarized letter for children traveling with a guardian plus their birth certificates

  • Prepare care package for the loved one

  • Go to ATM to get cash for van and vending

  • Gather snacks for children for the hours-long ride

  • Meet the van at 11:00 pm

  • Travel to prison

  • Follow COVID protocol

  • Maintain 6 feet of distance

  • Do not be late

  • Subject yourself to canine searches, which can be sexually humiliating and intrusive.

  • Mentally prepare yourself to potentially be disrespected by guards